U.S. Army Ordnance Center and School
U.S. Army Calibration Course, required a background in electronics to enter the school. My background as a RADAR Repairman gave me the qualification for the course. It was 20 some odd weeks of intensive training in all kinds of test and measurement equipment. At the time the calibration technician was required to operate and repair all of the equipment we used, more than 1000 items used in test and measurement.
Working in an Army Calibration Van
In addition to keeping up with the training I also had another mission, I was in pursuit of a very lovely young lady, Miss Bee. We were dating and became very serious prior to my completion of my training. I knew I would be going to Okinawa In November of 1967, so I asked her to marry me and she said yes. The photo below is me when I went calling on her father to discuss our plans. To be honest, he was not overly impressed, the fact that I was recently divorced, I had custody of 3 children, and I was talking about taking his daughter and granddaughter to the other side of the world were not points in my favor. He had reservations about the probability of us having a successful marriage, and I understood that. We assured him that we knew there would be problems but we were also confident that we could work through them. After expressing his discomfort with the situation he reluctantly agreed.
After completion of Calibration Technician School, I received orders shipping me to Okinawa. In route to Okinawa Bonnie traveled with me to San Diego, CA to meet my parents. I was going there to visit with the children and then on to Oakland where I would fly to Okinawa. We were feeling confident since we had passed the first hurdle with her parents, and they even agreed to keep her daughter while we traveled across the country. I will say the the meeting did not go as well as her parents did, I had put a black mark on the family name since I was divorced, the first in the family. The best way to describe the encounter would be hostile, she is also divorced and has a child the same age as my youngest. They were sure that we could never make it last.
The rejection had little effect on me, after a couple of very uncomfortable days, we went on to Oakland, driving up the Pacific Coast Highway. What a beautiful drive. I went to Okinawa and she flew back to Baltimore. In late December, 1967 she came to Okinawa with her 3 year old daughter, we were married by an Army Chaplin on January 2, 1968. Lou and Ann, friends from Aberdeen Proving Grounds were the only people present for the wedding.
I do not wish to dwell on the subject but it was a long time before my wife was welcomed into the family by my parents. My mother did not make it easy for our marriage to succeed but since we recently celebrated our 41st year together, maybe this is one time that I knew more than my parents did.
Blending a family is very difficult, children are capable of playing one parent against the other, my youngest daughter was an expert at doing just that, and she would also play my mother against my wife, I did not know that at the time but today I do.
2nd Logistics Command MAC V
Left Shoulder Right shoulder combat patch
I was converted from SSG to Sp6 after calibration school
Prior to her arrival to Okinawa I rented an apartment in this building. There was a waiting period for Government Housing but I was put on a waiting list with expectation of bringing my children to Okinawa. Two weeks after our marriage I left her in a strange country while I did a 60 day trip to Vietnam. That is me in the parking lot and that is my 64 Grand Prix, the coolest car I ever owned….
I would take a short trip to Okinawa anytime I could, I remember once when we had equipment failure and it had to be returned to Okinawa, my team chief, knowing I was just married prior to our trip sent me to escort the equipment to Okinawa, have it repaired or replaced and return to Vietnam. I caught a flight on an Air America, (CIA Airline) from DaNang to Saigon, two days later I hopped a C141 to Okinawa, arriving at about 3 AM. Here I am, no bath for three days, unshaven, carrying an M-16 Rifle, in the middle of the night trying to get Bonnie to open the door, I finally convinced her that it was me and she let me in.
In the summer of 1968 after we were assigned to government housing, I flew back to San Diego to escort the two younger children to Okinawa.
Yep, that is big hair
A few months later Cynthia joined us on Okinawa and we remained there until late 1970.
I received orders moving me to Fort Hood, Texas but before I left Okinawa the new Army Promotion List to Sergeant First Class came out and I had made the list. Our transfer back to the States was cancelled because they had to assign me to a E-7 position. Three months later I received orders sending us back to Aberdeen Proving Grounds, Maryland
TO BE CONTINUED



